It's Not Personal


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This series, “Horse Sense for Humans”, is straight from the horse’s mouth (translated by me!) You’ll get to meet some of my equine team as well as some other horses I’ve worked with over the years as they share some of their client experiences from their point of view!

I hope you enjoy!

“It's Not Personal”

Hi, I’m Coach Fancy,

There are 7 of us in our stalls. A group of people has come in to meet us. 

There’s a woman with a hat pulled down near her eyes that’s come to stand in front of me. Her whole body is a bit ‘twitchy’. When I look her in the eye I feel her heart space expand. A little wave of happy washes over her. That feels nice.

Some squawking geese are making a commotion right outside my window. I turn around to see what is going on. Just a couple of noisy ganders battling over access to our pond.

The energy behind me suddenly feels cold. I turn to see the woman’s face is clouded over with disappointment. I try to catch her eye again, but she just looks down at the ground.

I snort and shake my head. 

The dramatic change in energy is a bit unsettling. Why do humans take everything so personally? Just because I turned to look out the window doesn’t mean I don’t like you. 


Thank You for your contributions to this work and thank you for reading.

To Your Horse & Soul Success,


~author of, “The Business of Coaching with Horses. How to Reach More Clients, Feed Your Horses and Change the World!”

My mission is to empower and educate equine inspired practitioners in the art of profitable program design and marketing. My dream-come-true is to see equine-assisted personal and professional development be recognized and celebrated for the unique transformational modality that it is, and to become as popular as yoga and Starbucks!



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